Why do want to marry ?

Why do you want to marry ?

With most marriages ending in divorce, it is important to take a self inventory as to who you want to get married. In my talk to several people, I have discovered that people have really wild and at times crazy ideas about why they want to get married. In this article I am just sharing the fundamentals that should motivate me and you to get married. Several movies have been done on this matte rand what comes to my attention quickly is “Why did I get married?” “Why did I get married too? “am sure there are several I can mention but these two and many others try to bring out to the open some of the reasons why people get married. So to avoid much of the heartache and pain and not ask the question regrettably ,”Why did I get married?, you can as well ask yourself now, “Why do I want to get married ?” This will go a long way in making your heart and mind sure of what you want to get into before you do so. Read this along and give us feed back.

Its important to know that today, one out of two marriages will end in divorce, and that’s not so good statistics to deal with. The church one of the mandated if not most recognized organs to prepare people for marriages is also not sure what has hit it too, with several if not sky rocketing divorce cases amongst its own people. Many people fail to ask themselves why they are getting married and end up marrying for the wrong reasons. Love, of course seems like the best reason. However, it is not hope that doesn’t scare you off will explain as the article goes on . One of the best if not the most important reasons to get married is for companionship. To have a successful marriage, both partners must have a genuine companionship. Of course, there are several reasons why a couple should not get married even if they do have companionship but there are basic and important reasons like stated here. It must be said and emphasized that, love is not an overnight thing, it takes time to grow in love, the process continues several yrs even after getting marred.

People are born with a desire to be loved and give love. It can be the most fulfilling feeling in the world. However, marrying simply because of love is not a good idea. Yes, it may sound very romantic. In fact, it is one of the main reasons people get married. Love alone is not a good reason to get married. Marriages succeed when there is a strong foundation of companionship built by the couple. A strong foundation for marriage includes compatibility, trust, and communication. Couples should ask themselves three questions to decide if marriage is right for them. First, are we compatible? In a marriage, the definition of compatible slightly changes. It is more than liking the same activities, same foods, same movies and music, etc. Being compatible in a marriage is having the ability to adapt to changes. People constantly change from day to day and will continue to do so in marriages. Work, children, and in-laws are just some of the changes that occur in a marriage. The key is to be on the same page and know how to deal with your relationship when you are not.

Second, do you trust one another? Marriages without trust are marriages that end in divorce. Having your partner’s trust is a must have in a relationship. If there is the slightest doubt in either of the partners’ mind, then there is no trust. Relationships thrive on trust and cannot survive without it. Third, is there communication? Lack of communication can destroy a relationship. Communication is very important in a marriage. Married people need to communicate all the time. Talking only when times get rough or not talking at all only hurts the relationship. The lack of communication is also a leading reason for divorces. Divorcees commonly complain that the other partner never listened or avoided conversations with them. Communication is vital to the relationship. If you never communicate, how will you know if you are compatible and if you trust one another?

If you and your partner are able to answer these questions honestly and to one another’s satisfaction, marriage is a good idea for the two of you. Having compatibility, trust, and communication in your relationship will build the strong foundation of companionship you need for marriage. However, if one of these factors is not present, getting married is not a good idea. Marriage between two people should only occur when all factors are present. It is never a good idea to get married for the wrong reasons. Reasons not to get married include getting married due to love at first sight, sexual attraction, to cure loneliness, as an act of rebellion, rebound love, out of obligation, pressure, pregnancy, and for financial gain. Marriages based on these reasons most likely result in divorce. While for some people, one or all of these reasons may seem like the best thing, but they are not. Some of these reasons are selfish and do not Love at first sight. Ah, what a feeling! You smile constantly, have butterflies in your tummy, and may feel impulsive. Impulsive enough to get married. Getting married based on love alone is the number one reason not to get married. Love at first sight can be a temporary feeling. The things you do like running off to get married while under its spell can have lasting negative effects. No foundation has been built to support the marriage. Therefore, the marriage has no backbone and will most likely end in divorce. Also, marrying from lust at first sight is a bad idea as well. Marriages based on sexual attraction do not survive. Sex is one of the several factors that keep the flames of love burning and not thee only one. Its important to have an open mind to be able to develop strengths in every area of your relationship. Its sad that many people are just enduring and not enjoying marriage.

No one wants to be lonely. Marrying someone simply to avoid being alone the rest of your life is wrong, not only for you but for your mate as well. People fear being alone and will jump into a marriage quickly to avoid it. Chances are you will still be lonely only now you will be lonely in a marriage. These types of marriages have no foundation of companionship and usually result in unhappiness leading to divorce take in the considerations of the other partner’s feelings. Whether you are marrying as an act of rebellion or rebound, neither are a good idea. The acts are selfish. Getting married as a way to get even with someone, parents and/or ex-lover, only hurts the ones who love you and yourself. Rebelling into marriage can have a negative impact on everyone involved. Marrying someone while on the rebound is unfair to the other person. It is easier for someone on the rebound to fall in love because of the need to be loved. People on the rebound tend to marry the wrong person. They are in love with the idea of being in love and not the actual person. Rebound marriages can hurt the other partner who actually may be in love with the rebounded. The rebounded can also be hurt once they realize the mistake they have made.

You should never feel obligated or succumb to pressure to marry someone. These kinds of marriages usually result in divorce. Some couples marry when one of them feels obligated to stay in the relationship or feels too guilty to break it off. Marrying someone to please others is not a good idea. Giving in to pressure from family, friends, society, and/or your partner will only cause you unhappiness. These kinds of marriages are disappointing and commonly result in divorce. Marrying to avoid being a single parent is never a good idea. While pregnancies out of wedlock are on the rise, so are divorces. Many believe that by getting married because of pregnancy they are doing the right thing. Yes, a child does deserve two parents in their life. However, if a divorce can be avoided then it should. Divorces can turn bitter and have lasting negative effects on children. There are people today, whose behaviors is a result of the effects of the divorce that happened between their parents many, many years ago. Will have article mainly on that one of strange and difficult behaviors in relationships.

Things have changed now, such that today is not like several years ago, when people fell in love and got married. Marriage appears to have developed into a sort of business as people are becoming more materialistic. People in my parent’s generation got married without looking thoroughly at each other’s papers, mostly following their hearts. But this is like a fairy tale now. People in my generation prefer following their heads to following their hearts. They look for a partner with a certain job, income, appearance, or means ― and this is called "being realistic." Being realistic is often considered being smart. But being realistic should not mean putting less importance on love and more on papers. Being realistic should mean being aware of the importance of love in marriage. If we are not looking for a marriage that will fall apart within a few years, we have to realize that love is the only thing that helps keep the realistic marriage together. The purpose of marriage is getting distorted nowadays. The purpose of marriage is to be faithful and share life together for better or worse. Today, it seems that marriage is being used as a tool to attain something we want. When marriage is used as a tool, it can easily lead to an unfaithful marriage, and it is quitecommon for married people to have affairs. Although not everyone starts their marriage with impure intentions, people who lack love towards their partners are more vulnerable to being unfaithful. If marriage is not the result of love, but rather a tool, it is very difficult for the partners to feel guilty about being unfaithful. It is time to rethink the purpose of marriage in order to achieve happy marriages.

A strong bond, built by love, leads to a happy marriage. My parents had been in love for 10 years before they got married and they were very much in love when they did. Not every marriage can be perfect. They, of course, have had many difficulties keeping their marriage intact. But the strong bond, so called love, was the only thing that helped them to get through all these difficulties. Every time they wanted to give the marriage up, the great love they share always made them think twice and get back together. It is also impossible to have a happy family without having a happy marriage. Having a family is like building a house. If the first floor is not firm enough, it is impossible to build the second floor. Marriage should be the outcome of love and having a happy family should be based on having a happy marriage. Showing an example of a happy marriage to offspring can also result in another happy marriage in the next generation. If we want to have a happy marriage, we have to start to consider what is important in marriage. Love is the most valuable asset of all.


Lastly, marrying for financial gain is wrong. Many men and women marry for financial gain to escape their current financial situations. This is perhaps the most selfish reason to marry someone. These marriages almost always result in divorce with hurt parties on both sides. Marrying for any of the wrong reasons is a recipe for disaster. Marriage is about commitment. A serious commitment between two people should never be taken lightly. Make sure you are marrying for the right reasons and not the wrong ones. Take time to ask yourself today, ‘Why do want to get married ?” Check for the signals before you commit yourself to a long boring, lifeless and tiring marriage.

Marriage is not a fancy dream. Let’s be realistic."

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Finding The True Source of Power

Finding The True Source of Power
People in this world can be classified into two groups: givers and takers. Givers are those who, after every transaction want to see the other part having received value for their money, time, effort or whatever it is that they would have traded. Takers on the other hand are only interested in their well-being and their personal interests. Whether the other party had benefitted from the deal or not they say, "I’m sorry but that’s no skin off my nose". What only matters is their interest.

I cannot say which group is better than the other but the results certainly differ. The average person thinks that in order to succeed or win you have to be a taker all the time but the opposite is true. People who excel are those who give. It was a cardinal policy of Toyota manufacturers that whenever they manufactured a vehicle, that vehicle had to have an extra $2,500.00 worth of value over and above its market price. This means that if you would buy a Toyota for $10,000.00, its true value would certainly be $12,500.00. Now that is giving, and the results go a long way.

In today’s world you can make free calls around the world using skype and other modern technologies. There are various mediums through which one can chat, text messages, talk and hold video conferences, all for free. You cannot be persuaded to think that the great thinkers who invented these technologies stand to lose because their products are being used for free. Great givers are great successes.

You have to understand that many people concentrate on images rather than the real things. For example we have many people that run helter-skelter looking for symbols of power and not power itself. Money, fame, riches and big names are all symbols of power but they are not anywhere near where real power is. The real power is in giving and the best gift that one can give is thought. The person that thinks the most is the powerful one and is worth of our admiration and honour.

The world has its own way of rewarding givers. Examples are too many to mention; Google started as a project by Larry Page and Sergey Brin, two Stanford University PhD program students. Their main purpose was to come up with a search engine that would give users relevant links in response to searches. When one makes a request they should be directed to the closest link to their search. The intention was to give to the users. Whenever anyone gives value to the world the return is beyond computation. In less than a decade, Google had managed a double-jump leapfrog past long time global giants, evolving from a two-man band to a multibillion dollar corporation. Thinks of other givers of products like Microsoft, Apple, Facebook, WordPress, the list is endless. But the real deal is that these thinkers gave a lot to the world hence they are rewarded with fat purses. Their money is not their source of power, but their minds and the willingness to give the products of their thinking.

Everyone has this power and the secret is in exercising it.

To your zenith, Ozias Mucheriwa

Love and Finding it. What is Love ?

Love and finding it. What is love?

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick." The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders… maybe there is a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one… But maybe there is an even bigger one waiting for him. Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he started to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he knows if he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted. So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand. The teacher told him, "This is love… You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person…"Hope you guys there you aren’t missing on finding real love, take your time and juts make sure you don’t miss it hey.
"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick." The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reached the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feels satisfy, and came back to the teacher. The teacher told him, “This time you bring back a corn. You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best you get…This is marriage.

It is important that we are able to find love at the appropriate time in our lives. They say you find true love once in your life. I still don’t know how far true this is, but there is an element of truth in it. Most people are unaware of the fact that there is a biological root for the feelings you feel and the way you behave while you are either in love or falling in love. Understanding the empirical roots of what we perceive as love sheds light on why relationships can be so torturous and addicting. Researchers have outlined the neurological effect of falling in love with a person, from the initial “crush” to long after the relationship ends. Love has quite an impact on the way the brain would regularly function otherwise and, just like alcohol; your judgment is the first thing to be impaired. Love even alters the activity of various neurotransmitters and hormones in the brain that alter behavior in ways comparable to some psychological disorders.
Biologically, love begins as lust in the form of the sex hormones testosterone and estrogen. These hormones create that initial desire for a person in the same parts of your brain responsible for primal survival drives. One study demonstrated that testosterone levels in men can shoot up by as much as one-third after even a casual chat with a new female acquaintance, which means that “love at first sight” may occur more often than not, in a general sense. Further casual interactions trigger the release of dopamine, a neurotransmitter associated with happiness, in the brain, which, in turn, triggers more testosterone, and thus the fall begins.
The next phase of falling in love involves the secretion of b-phenyl ethylamine, which deters negative judgment to whoever you are in love with. This naturally occurring drug makes any paramour more likely to observe only the good characteristics of their lover and ignore the poor qualities. This is why some people choose to stay in an abusive relationship for masochistic amounts of time. Humans are biologically predisposed to bear biased judgment in favor of their lover. When it comes to your brain, falling in love closely resembles addiction and other disorders
. You can experience relationships with relatives on a very deep level. Your emotions are stronger and more intense than most people’s. When you care, it reaches to the very roots of your soul. Family is a serious matter. It must be noted that,Compatibility is a real phenomenon and it is crucially important in relationships. However, scientists are still learning about all the time. No one has the perfect answer yet. But it’s important to check compatibility in your relationship. How compatible are you with your partner?

It’s extremely difficult to explore the ingredients for compatibility on a series of “first dates.” Most people meet others through place of employment, through family or friends or just by accident. Thus, people naturally meet others with whom they’re similar. But, similarities alone don’t make a lasting and satisfying relationship. Differences can be healthy – as they can add spice and balance to a relationship. People need access to a large dating pool in order to meet and explore people with a range of similarities and differences in relation to themselves. Most people have a simplistic idea about compatibility, which draws from the apparently contradictory theories of similarity, (“birds of a feather flock together”) and complementarity (“opposites attract The bottom line is that relationships are held together over time because of compatibility, not chemistry, passion, love style, sex type or dating persona. Compatibility is a psychological concept, not an inherently hard-wired and unconscious phenomenon between two people that stems from uncontrollable chemical reactions in the brain. It is important to be compatible, though this can take a lot of time to cultivate it and get to that level of great compatibility, it is achievable.

To be continued:

Alter your Mindset

Alter your Mindset

By Ozias Mucheriwa

“You’ve got to be innovative! You have to increase your output. You have to augment your production by eighty percent.” These and other challenging statements are what we hear frequently, in the business world and the world around us but the question remains, how can one be able to innovate and come up with stuff beyond his mortal discretion to fathom?, There are many men and women of extraordinary mental stature with minds so powerful that they can turn disjointed screeds into reasoned consensus but they are inhibited from going beyond their present worlds because there is nothing more that they can see. In order for them to do and be better than what their present circumstances dictate, they need to be exposed to better and challenging things., I was chatting with a friend who is a web designer. He told me that the very first time that he caught sight of a floppy disk was a significant ‘light bulb moment’ that transformed his life round in an instant. He was even overwhelmed when his brother told him that he had all his information contained in that piece of external data media. He made a conscious resolution that he will pursue a career in the technological world of computers for the rest of his life and from that moment a self-propelled upward spiral began, as I am writing today he a very successful web developer. Imagine if he had not been exposed to a computer until today. Perhaps he could be wailing in poverty somewhere in search of a career., A moment of exposure altered his way of thinking. Anytime that you see someone perform at a level that is mind blowing you are being afforded a moment of exposure. That exposure is capable of catapulting you to a level of thinking that you never dreamt of before. It is called a world of possibilities. You will begin to see things that you considered impossible and once you see them through someone then the light dawns on you; they are within the realm of practical possibility., A belief system can only change when you afford yourself exposure to people and circumstances that can mess with your thinking. If you live in a two dollar world you will be disposed to think of the whole wide world as a two dollar place, but if you get the opportunity to rub shoulders with gentlemen of leisure who exercise a conspicuous consumption of valuable goods your view of the world will obviously shift. Before you get elevated to a million dollar world you need to be exposed to the million dollar world first and see its beauty. Until you get exposed to a free society you can never appreciate and understand the importance of freedom. You cannot get to a level that is beyond what your mind can see. In order for you to see it expose yourself to it!, For many years, it was believed to be impossible to run a four-minute mile until Roger Bannister broke that myth in 1954. The other guys who came and realised that it is possible made it possible again. The ‘four minute barrier’ has since been broken by many male athletes, and is now the standard of all professional middle distance runners. Everything that has been made possible initially became possible in someone’s mind. If you want to have a lot of possibilities allow your mind to be exposed to a lot of possibilities. Once they become possible in your mind they are now possible.,

In order for you to see it expose yourself to it!,

As Featured On EzineArticles To your zenith, Ozias Mucheriwa

Be,do and have

By Ozias Mucheriwa

This is the order of life and of every other form of achievement. Be, do and have. In life you get what you are. This might be a bit hard for me to explain but I will try. You cannot have what you are not. In life we always get what we are. This truth manifests itself in relationships, business and life in general. Your surroundings and circumstances are usually a reflection of what you are. A realisation of this profound truth can result in a significant leap into the world of success and happiness.

It is not what we get that is important but what we become. Becoming is the most important science that any person aspiring to develop a self-propelled upward spiral should strive for. Many people when offered opportunities to handle huge and challenging projects, are quick to ask, “What’s in it for me?” That is the last question a focussed person should ask. The right question to ask is, (and I’m giving you this for free), “What am I becoming?” It is what you become that determines your success in life, not what you get. Once you become, getting becomes inevitable.

Let us start with relationships. Finding the right person in a relationship is not dependent on some mysterious compatibility quotient. It is found in being the right person. Being the right person is a matter of working on yourself to become that kind of person your partner cannot only live with but cannot live without. You obviously have some bad elements that can drive your partner off the wall and only you has the power chisel them out. Sometimes you could wish to change your partner when it is actually your bad habits that cause him or her to behave in the manner they do. Instead of fighting to change someone, changing yourself can play the trick that you’ve been yearning for, for years. After becoming the right person no force that can impede your reception of good and harmonious relationships.

In business you can become a prosperous business person but that starts again with becoming a success. As a man thinketh so is he. How you view the world of money and business. You need to peel folklore from history and from fact. Avoid opinions such as:

•Success in business calls for a degree dishonesty
•For you to gain, others have to lose
•You have to be a skinflint to succeed in the world of business
You become a success first before it manifests in the physical. This is because premature wealth always leads to misery and regret. You should not get rich above your level of self-development as this is bound to make the riches think for you making you a slave of riches. Before you run helter-skelter looking for wealth work on developing yourself to become a better person.

Once you become, it becomes easy to act in a manner consistent with the person you have become. The fact is, once you become the deeds come on naturally and those deeds attract wealth. Acts of success follow a person of success. Do the acts that correspond with your being i.e. who you are or rather who you have become.

After passing these stages you can then have whatever you want. When you acquire things after you have become and done, you are sure to retain them. Following the order of things will take you far. I guess that is why Dr Stephen Covey had to dedicate a whole chapter in The Seven Habits of Highly Effective people to doing First Things First. The majority fight to have things that the rich have when they are poor in mind. The only area where poverty is recommend is in spirit but if you become poor in mind the results become interesting. Off the point. Never mind.

Be, do and have.

Be,Do and Have

By Ozias Mucheriwa

This is the order of life and of every other form of achievement. Be, do and have. In life you get what you are. This might be a bit hard for me to explain but I will try. You cannot have what you are not. In life we always get what we are. This truth manifests itself in relationships, business and life in general. Your surroundings and circumstances are usually a reflection of what you are. A realisation of this profound truth can result in a significant leap into the world of success and happiness.

It is not what we get that is important but what we become. Becoming is the most important science that any person aspiring to develop a self-propelled upward spiral should strive for. Many people when offered opportunities to handle huge and challenging projects, are quick to ask, “What’s in it for me?” That is the last question a focussed person should ask. The right question to ask is, (and I’m giving you this for free), “What am I becoming?” It is what you become that determines your success in life, not what you get. Once you become, getting becomes inevitable.

Let us start with relationships. Finding the right person in a relationship is not dependent on some mysterious compatibility quotient. It is found in being the right person. Being the right person is a matter of working on yourself to become that kind of person your partner cannot only live with but cannot live without. You obviously have some bad elements that can drive your partner off the wall and only you has the power chisel them out. Sometimes you could wish to change your partner when it is actually your bad habits that cause him or her to behave in the manner they do. Instead of fighting to change someone, changing yourself can play the trick that you’ve been yearning for, for years. After becoming the right person no force that can impede your reception of good and harmonious relationships.

In business you can become a prosperous business person but that starts again with becoming a success. As a man thinketh so is he. How you view the world of money and business. You need to peel folklore from history and from fact. Avoid opinions such as:

•Success in business calls for a degree dishonesty
•For you to gain, others have to lose
•You have to be a skinflint to succeed in the world of business
You become a success first before it manifests in the physical. This is because premature wealth always leads to misery and regret. You should not get rich above your level of self-development as this is bound to make the riches think for you making you a slave of riches. Before you run helter-skelter looking for wealth work on developing yourself to become a better person.

Once you become, it becomes easy to act in a manner consistent with the person you have become. The fact is, once you become the deeds come on naturally and those deeds attract wealth. Acts of success follow a person of success. Do the acts that correspond with your being i.e. who you are or rather who you have become.

After passing these stages you can then have whatever you want. When you acquire things after you have become and done, you are sure to retain them. Following the order of things will take you far. I guess that is why Dr Stephen Covey had to dedicate a whole chapter in The Seven Habits of Highly Effective people to doing First Things First. The majority fight to have things that the rich have when they are poor in mind. The only area where poverty is recommend is in spirit but if you become poor in mind the results become interesting. Off the point. Never mind.

Be, do and have.

Ways to Increase your sperm volume

Ways to Increase Sperm Volume

Hope this artcile though am not the author,I strongly agree with the author,since I have also researched and written articles on the same topic.

 

Millions of men wonder every day (or maybe every few hours) if they can increase their sperm volume and enjoy better orgasmic pleasure.

Below are 8 fast and easy ways you can start now to increase your sperm volume without spending ridiculous amounts of money.

1. Drink lots and lots of water

70% of the body is made of water. Drinking at least a gallon of water a day will insure your body has enough fluids to produce more semen volume. Also you’ll have more overall energy. A study has shown that maintaining hydration and drinking lots of water will increase overall energy naturally by 25%. This method is affordable, but be ready to expect many more frequent trips to the bathroom.

2. Take L-arginine.

L-arginine is an amino acid that is considered one of the most important nutrients to men. L-arginine is involved with the production of sperm. Take at least 200mg daily to achieve harder erections and increasing sperm volume. You can buy l-arginine pills, but you have to take around 4-5 pills at once to get a small amount of l-arginine in your body.

3. Take Bee pollen

Bee pollen has been said to be beneficial to not only bees, but to men as well. The ingredient is highly rich in vitamins, minerals and amino acids. You will get more frequent erections and more sperm volume. The best are in live, liquid form.

The effectiveness of this ingredient is still disputed today, because many scientists claim that although the ingredient might be effective to bees, it will not be effective to humans in such small amounts. There is another product called Royal Jelly, which is the "sole diet of queen bees". This ingredient is more effective than Bee pollen and is great for the male body.

4. Lift weights

Have you realized that after lifting weights, you feel much more live and angry? This is due to the increase in testosterone weight-lifting exercises induce. Increased testosterone increases sperm production and helps you get better erections.

Exercising also gives you more confidence, strength and the stamina to make better love in bed.

5. Take a multi vitamin

A multi-vitamin is extremely beneficial to both male and female. Some daily ingredients you should take are Calcium, Iron, Magnesium, Vitamin A, Vitamin C, Vitamin E and Vitamin B12. These vitamins and minerals can be found in many multi-vitamin supplements in many stores.

Men should take multi-vitamin supplements specifically formulated for men. These include extra ingredients such as Saw palmetto (a berry that is beneficial to men) and Maca. These extra ingredients give that extra boost to the male body, and in the production of sperm volume. These multi-vitamin supplements also cost some money.

6. Drink less alcohol (if you over drink often)

Drinking less alcohol helps increase sperm volume, because overdrinking causes liver exhaustion and can decrease testosterone. Alcohol has been known to decrease testosterone temporarily.

7. Sleep more.

Sleeping increases testosterone at a much higher rate than working out. This is also the reason why men get erections when they wake up in the morning. You will increase your sperm volume effectively by sleeping at least 8 hours per day.

This testosterone increasing effect only works with REM sleep (real, long sleep). Naps do not count.

8. Take a sperm volume supplement.

This is by far the most effective method to increasing sperm volume, because there are certain supplements that were solely created to increase ejaculation volume. While there are many fake products that don’t work, some of the better ones include ingredients that are very beneficial to the human body, such as L-arginine. If you are looking to increase sperm volume, this is the easiest and fastest way to go.

These supplements are cost effective, and can help you experience one of the most pleasurable

Women and Shoes

Too Sexy For Your Shoes

( Women and Shoes .)

Song of Solomon 7:1 How beautiful are your feet with shoes, O prince’s daughter! the joints of your thighs [are] like jewels, the work of the hands of a cunning workman.(GMR)

What is it about the body of your spouse that really appeals to you?

For many men, it is the sight of the legs of their loved one. There is no doubt about it that a woman’s legs are one of her greatest beauty assets, apart from her breasts.

But how can you get your legs to look good so that they will appeal to the man in your life? The answer is simple.

SHOES!

Why is it that a man can live with a couple of pairs of shoes, whereas a woman usually needs a cupboard full of them? It is because the shoes that a woman wears can enhance the beauty of her legs more than most other things.

The way a woman walks is a wonderful sight in the eyes of a man. Songs have even been written about it in the past. Men watch women walk and they are affected by the sight.

So what can you do to make yourself more alluring to your husband?

You can learn to walk like a woman. And the best way to get this right is to wear shoes that will enhance the way you walk. And the best ones are those with higher heels.

If you are not sure what this involves, then just try watching women walk some time. Next time you are in a public place, take time to watch the women walk. And ask yourself, who is looking the most feminine and sexy?

If you are not able to detect this yourself, then ask your husband to give you his honest opinion. You relationship should be good enough for you to do this without feeling threatened. Ask him what appeals to him in the way a woman walks.

Then watch the men walk and compare it with the way a feminine woman walks. You will see a big difference between the two.

When a woman walks, she keeps her feet together and walks in a straight line, while wiggling her hips from side to side. This sight is enough to make any man want to take another look at her. But a man tends to walk with his feet apart, each facing outwards in a jagged line. Definitely not something which carries sex appeal.

Consider what shoes do to a woman to enhance her beauty. And consider how different shoes can make her look more royal and feminine.

As Solomon looked at the feet and legs of his lover, he saw something that really appealed to him. He saw lovely legs that as she walked caused her hips to wiggle from side to side in a wonderful way. And he remarked about the joints of her thighs.

Are you making the effort to walk in a sexy way for the man in your life ladies? Ask your husband to be honest with you. Try giving him a special parade, wearing different shoes, and walking up and down in front of him to see what he really likes the most.

If your walk is not that feminine, then try putting a book on your head as you walk to force you to walk like a lady. You will be amazed what an effect this will have on your man.

Do you not be surprised if this little exercise leads to a wonderful time in bed. Your husband is likely to become so stirred up by the sight of you walking in an appealing way that he will want to make love to you right away.

This is what you want isn’t it? To make the man in your life think you are the loveliest woman in the world?

And besides, you might find him suggesting you get some new shoes to wear. So in the end it is definitely to your benefit.

Give it a try and see what happens.

Women and Shoes

Too Sexy For Your Shoes

( Women and Shoes .)

Song of Solomon 7:1 How beautiful are your feet with shoes, O prince’s daughter! the joints of your thighs [are] like jewels, the work of the hands of a cunning workman.(GMR)

What is it about the body of your spouse that really appeals to you?

For many men, it is the sight of the legs of their loved one. There is no doubt about it that a woman’s legs are one of her greatest beauty assets, apart from her breasts.

But how can you get your legs to look good so that they will appeal to the man in your life? The answer is simple.

SHOES!

Why is it that a man can live with a couple of pairs of shoes, whereas a woman usually needs a cupboard full of them? It is because the shoes that a woman wears can enhance the beauty of her legs more than most other things.

The way a woman walks is a wonderful sight in the eyes of a man. Songs have even been written about it in the past. Men watch women walk and they are affected by the sight.

So what can you do to make yourself more alluring to your husband?

You can learn to walk like a woman. And the best way to get this right is to wear shoes that will enhance the way you walk. And the best ones are those with higher heels.

If you are not sure what this involves, then just try watching women walk some time. Next time you are in a public place, take time to watch the women walk. And ask yourself, who is looking the most feminine and sexy?

If you are not able to detect this yourself, then ask your husband to give you his honest opinion. You relationship should be good enough for you to do this without feeling threatened. Ask him what appeals to him in the way a woman walks.

Then watch the men walk and compare it with the way a feminine woman walks. You will see a big difference between the two.

When a woman walks, she keeps her feet together and walks in a straight line, while wiggling her hips from side to side. This sight is enough to make any man want to take another look at her. But a man tends to walk with his feet apart, each facing outwards in a jagged line. Definitely not something which carries sex appeal.

Consider what shoes do to a woman to enhance her beauty. And consider how different shoes can make her look more royal and feminine.

As Solomon looked at the feet and legs of his lover, he saw something that really appealed to him. He saw lovely legs that as she walked caused her hips to wiggle from side to side in a wonderful way. And he remarked about the joints of her thighs.

Are you making the effort to walk in a sexy way for the man in your life ladies? Ask your husband to be honest with you. Try giving him a special parade, wearing different shoes, and walking up and down in front of him to see what he really likes the most.

If your walk is not that feminine, then try putting a book on your head as you walk to force you to walk like a lady. You will be amazed what an effect this will have on your man.

Do you not be surprised if this little exercise leads to a wonderful time in bed. Your husband is likely to become so stirred up by the sight of you walking in an appealing way that he will want to make love to you right away.

This is what you want isn’t it? To make the man in your life think you are the loveliest woman in the world?

And besides, you might find him suggesting you get some new shoes to wear. So in the end it is definitely to your benefit.

Give it a try and see what happens.

Women and Shoes