[WARNING STRICTLY FOR THOSE IN MARRIAGE UNION-borrowed from a a page and realized it`s worthy sharing.

A lot of people don’t associate sex with God – they associate it with Satan and darkness, as if sex is not Holy…. !! Sex is Holy within marriage, and there is no style=”line-height:115%;background:white;”>prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible does itNot discussing sex in marriage leads to divorce! Pastors have counseled women who’ve complained; “my husband treats me as if I were his brother.” There was one who told a Pastor “I am tired of getting sex fortnightly, like a salary.” Pastor told her,she was lucky to be getting sex fortnightly, since some wives only get it on big days, like ELECTIONS.

Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in the Avenues/brothels. Have you ever asked yourself what those women have that you don’t? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties. A married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband.


Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a female’s private part they go through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what’s hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them. Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband.

There are many married women who don’t know what their husbands’ private part look like. She only feels it when he enters her. They’ve never, touched it, let alone seen it, because the husband switches off the lights before undressing. Your husband’s private part is your toy; she is supposed to play with it

The Pastor blames couples for not making time for sex and complaining about being tired after a day’s work. You find many couples who’ve been sexually starved for years. God created sex for procreation and for pleasure. You can’t marry and not have a good time in bed.



 Why can’t you drive home during lunch and have a quickie with your wife? We’re all equal in sex it’s not just about a woman satisfying a man., . You have to satisfy each other. Have you ever seen a woman who has been satisfied? Have you noticed how she glows and becomes energetic???

(NIV) 1 Corinthians 7:4-5

The wife does not have authority, over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. [5] Do not deprive each, other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.






After being Tested,Shaken-Remain standing

The sternest tests awaken unknown strengths when faith comesSurviving the rough and tough matched to the trial. Two realities come enjoined, as if stars aligning, when challenges, conflicts, and controversies combine with the inner patience of grace to remain unbuckled under the weight of the burden.

The only way we can prove we have any strength of character is when we are tested. No one ever enjoys being tested, not if they’re being both honest and humble, but there is a pleasant irony in being tested. There is a crown to be earned in being tested where we are found worthy of the test. During such times we require composure; the courage to sustain an even-keel attitude, with the situational wisdom to show restraint against an emotional response.

Being stirred up by people who wish to upset us, or being shaken by a disturbing, grief-laden event, or being tested by an unrelenting season of life; these are as predictable in coming as they are in their ferocity. We need courage. We need several forms of courage. We need wisdom of the sort that reflects courage. We need to apply faith which is truly the application of courage together with the discernment and decisiveness of wisdom in remaining steadfast.

Courage is required in the instant. If we are prepared to enter the fray courageously, that step of faith will be rewarded. Courage is the momentary application of trust – in God, in the moment to redeem itself upon our understanding, and in the willingness to delay judgment. We cannot be strengthened if we haven’t been previously weakened. There is a necessary testing that must come as a precursor to strengthening. Being strengthened occurs as a product of a testing time in combination with an insightfully wise response.

Being stirred, shaken, and tested are opportunities and not just challenges. If it wasn’t for such things there would be no impetus for strengthening; for the sort of growth our characters need to mature. Again, we don’t thrive on being stirred, shaken, or tested, but there is a crown of blessing for having endured it. Endurance is our key. And anything that will help that end should be considered, but only the things that support virtues like patience, wisdom, faith, and courage should be applied.

If we are prepared to enter the fray courageously, our step of faith will be rewarded. Courage is the momentary application of trust. Trusting God is a worthy response. Courage, faith, and trust: these three reflect wisdom and they ensure we are strengthened.

Success is achievable

Herbert Prince Mtowo
“For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven. A time to be born and a time to die”. These are the opening words of Ecclesiastes Chapter 3. It serves as a reminder to man that death is inevitable. It is the way every living being will go. Do you realize that your lifetime is the only time you have to do whatsoever you wish in life? Many people live their lives as though they are oblivious of this fact and so attach little or no seriousness to their lives.

This failure to realize early that life is a one-time thing is in part responsible for so much mediocrity among men. A lot of intelligent and smart guys die without maximizing their potentials. Not because they did not have enough time to optimally exploit life, but because they fail to use their time optimally. They are only remembered and talked of by close family members and friends when their names should have been indelibly stamped in human history.
Men like Sir Isaac Newton, Thomas Edison, King Gillette, Henry Ford, Martin Luther King Jr., Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, Jeff Bezos, Steve Jobs, Steve Wozniak, etc. who distinguished themselves all have the same physical features like every other human being. The blood that runs in their veins is not different from that that runs in you. Some of them did not get the best of education, but they were exceedingly successful. Others didn’t come from wealthy homes and some others like Albert Einstein were dullard early in their life.

You are too loaded to be a failure. That is not who you are created to be. To walk the earth and die without leaving a strong indelible mark of great positive achievement is not why you are here.

Success is a possibility that starts in the mind and eats up a person showing in his attitudes which forms his habits and attributes. It begins with a possibility thinking and mindset. Do you think you can succeed? The first step to becoming successful in life is to have a mind full of success oriented thoughts. If the men mentioned above can succeed, you too can succeed. Success is possible for.

Wake up from your slumber. You have slept away enough time. It is not too late yet. You can still hit your business, academic, career and spiritual targets if you are determined.