DSC_0001By Coach Herbert.

You must let go of what holds you back from living your greatest life so that you may fly. Detach yourself from the things and people that weigh you down and hold you back from living a life of greatness. Thoughts, feelings, actions, and people that are mediocre must be removed from your life, absorb what is beneficial, discard what is not, and add what is uniquely your own. Empty your mind and be free, forgive, forget, move on, let go, yesterday has been and gone, there is no benefit in dwelling on the past; it is a new day, so begin again.

The memories of the past hold many back, past failures, past defeats, past pains, past struggles, past adversity, and past disappointments. It does not matter what happened yesterday, if you knew better you would have done better, no one is born a genius, we have to figure things out by ourselves mainly, we can be guided by our elders and peers to follow a certain path but ultimately it is our actions that reveal to us the true path that we really want to take. Others cannot walk the path for you, it is your journey.

Let go of the people who try to keep you down and confine you to where you are, why do people have the need to tell others what they cannot do? Most people are just weak minded and they try to impose their disbelief on others with their stupid views on what is attainable. Winners get up and take action, losers just sit around assuming failure. Be a winner and take action, so what if things do not work out, at least you tried, and at least you had the courage to take action.

Commit yourself to being an action taker in all aspects of your life, your dream life does not come about by wishing, it comes as a result of action. The more action you take the stronger you will get. Conquer your fears and fight for what you want.

We must let go of all those things that weigh us down within ourselves, the negative thoughts that play on your mind add no value to your life but cause you to lose focus on your mission, negative thoughts are mini distractions that are trying to destroy you from within. Shut those thoughts down and replace them with what you want to accomplish.

Adopt the beginner’s mindset, of not being paralyzed by the memories of failure. Be a beginner again, when life was an enjoyable adventure of courage, fearlessness, and action. When we are younger we are more fearless but when we go through life being around the mediocre folk we start to mirror their cowardice. Empty yourself of conformity. The shackles of conformity imprison many to a fake life but that does not have to be the case for you. You do not have to remain confined to a life you don’t want to live.

Hasn’t the time come for you to step it up to a whole new level? Hasn’t the time come for you to live life on a different level? Hasn’t the time come for you to be who you want to be? Hasn’t the time come for you to eradicate negativity from your life? Hasn’t the time come for you to focus on success? Hasn’t the time come for you to see what you are truly made of? And hasn’t the time come for you to spread your wings and fly?





Coach Herbert .

Life rarely gives us second chances, even though now and then it does it is always not a guarantee that you will get them.  Most of the time s in life we miss the mark, fail to hit the target and end up messing up what seemingly was a well-planned life. What would you do differently if you could start all over again? So many people fantasize with the idea that if they could only go back and start again they would make different choices and do something different from what they are doing now.

You can’t go back in time, but you can actually do something about your situation now if you don’t like how your life has panned out so far. But the amusing thing is that people know what they done wrong and what they would change but they do not change anything, they will just live out the rest of their days complaining about the past.

Complaining does not help to change your life around, it is action. You have the capabilities within you to take charge of your life by identifying what you have done wrong and then you can correct your mistakes of the past by making wiser choices with the use of your days ahead.

The days that are before you are what will help to define how you live out your life, you can continue to live the mediocre life or you can step it up and be determined to succeed and make the last chapter of your life the blockbuster which your life should have been. Never dwell on the past, use it as a teacher to teach you what you need to do better.

You have the choice from today to shape your life in whatever way you want it to be. So what are you going to do? See what aspects of your life you need to improve upon, spirituality, health, family, dreams, personal development, financial freedom, and adventure.

What areas are you not happy with? What areas do you wish you had the opportunity to correct? Now with the answers in hand, set your goals, deadlines, and plans to amend these areas of your life. You can make the necessary changes needed within yourself in order to get better results.

Do not be fooled by the negative folk who have given up on themselves and have just settled. Throw the old script out of the window and rewrite one the way you want your life to truly be. Believe in yourself, you have within you the gifts and talents to accomplish amazing things, if only you would take action you would come to the realization that you are more powerful than you perceive yourself to be.

Let this be day one of a life that is lived fearlessly. Now is the time to embody ambition, determination, drive, hunger, persistence, personal growth, courage, adventure, ruthlessness, and a burning desire within you to make your dreams a reality.

Start to move in the direction you truly want to go, do not remain confined to a life of mediocrity, living life in a state of resignation. It’s time to step it up to new heights in your life. How many hours, days, months, and years have you wasted so far doing pointless things that don’t benefit your life not even one bit? Plenty, we are all guilty of throwing away our time like it is something which has no value, you must value your time to focus on those things that matter the most. Spend your time engaging in only the most important things that will benefit you, you have to reduce and exterminate the garbage daily activities and people from your life.

You must get serious about success if you want to develop your life to a higher standard by changing your thinking and changing your daily habits. These two aspects are what keep people stuck in the swamp of mediocrity, drowning slowly as a result of self-betrayal, and living a lie.

Is that what you have become content with? A garbage life, which we are told to pursue, where is the fulfillment in living this sort of timid life? There seems to be none, work should be something that is an expression of who you are, rather than just assuming someone else’s life. Work can be that and even more if you design the life that you want to live and put in the work. Let not the lies of the majority fool you into being like them, you will be going against yourself, your greatness demands that you be who you want to be and live the life that you are capable of living. Give yourself approval to go forward in the direction you know within you that you truly want to pursue, most people are their own worst enemies, they build up a case of why things will not work out, the list of why it won’t work is endless, pages and pages of brainless issues, you must start to build up a case of how you will succeed by saying, ‘How can I become successful?’ And the first thing you must do is believe in yourself.

Believe that you have what it takes because you do. Deep within yourself plant the seed of belief and keep on affirming to yourself every single day that you are destined to be a huge success. The time to start a new adventure has arrived, this shall be one with many ups and downs but you have the strength to ride the waves and reach the promised land. Hard work and dedication is what takes you from where you are to where you truly want to go.

Difficult belief systems


By Herbert

As you get older the dominant beliefs that you hold within your mind will start to harden. There are many people who are older who have negative hardened beliefs and then there are younger people who have been exposed to negativity that they start becoming old mentally well before their time. Most people are so corrupted by the false beliefs of mediocrity that they see no hope of a better future.

You have to be open-minded if you want to be successful. Closed mindedness is detrimental to developing as an individual, if you refuse to allow new beliefs to be inputted into your mind then you shall just think the same old thoughts and do the same old things and live the same old life. A new life comes about as a result of a new mind. And a new mind can only be developed through action and personal development.

Being closed minded and stubborn in your views in regards to attaining success and living your dreams is a major issue among many I have seen, people are so adamant in their disbelief of themselves that they have convinced themselves that they do not have what it takes to succeed and that belief has been repeated and affirmed daily for the past few years that they have sold themselves short on a life of misery that they play their role in. A lack of action is a major indicator of an individual’s belief in themselves. Being closed minded will result in you being a coward, it will result in you being a wage slave, just sitting around watching TV wasting your life during your free time, sitting around playing video games excessively, making excuses and fooling yourself that you are meant to be average.

Take a close look at your beliefs in the major areas of your life and identify the self-limiting beliefs that you have about yourself. Free yourself from these thoughts, open your mind, and release these self-imposed labels that you have attached to yourself. The beliefs you have about yourself stem from your dominant thoughts, you become what you think about. You must start to create a more developed version of yourself within the mind’s eye at first and then let your actions be in alignment to the person that you want to become.

Never let the closed-mindedness of others deter you or hold you back from going after your dreams. I have encountered many people who have sold themselves short, they have settled for nothing, they have become poisoned by mediocrity and they are living a lie betraying themselves daily. These are the ones who will try to hold you back from living your dreams, distance yourself from them, ignore their opinions; they are promoters of mediocrity, unconsciously. The majority of people have been educated to be average, to be an employee, and to be a sheep. If that is what you want then do what everyone does and you will get that type of life. The lazy man’s life is easy to live, it takes no effort being mediocre. It will take everything you have within you to live your dreams.


Start your day with the vision of you accomplishing your mission, living in your passion and fulfilling your purpose. Open your mind and let the thoughts of greatness flow through you. Open your mind, dare to dream, dare to believe, dare to be who you want to be and take action to live the life you truly want to live. Be open to the possibilities that there are no limits to what you can achieve, I urge you to start getting rid of the old beliefs about failure and instill new beliefs about success, live from your imagination and make your life a masterpiece.