By Coach Herbert
Many people grow up in this world being conditioned to be timid, afraid and think that they cannot learn. They say, ‘I don’t know how to do it’, ‘I don’t know what to do’, and ‘I am not good enough’. Forget what you think you know about success, many people have a negative outlook on their life and expect to attain success. You will never succeed with that type of mentality. You can learn anything that you want to learn, you can grow as an individual, you can do it, you can figure things out, and you are good enough.
The best way to learn is to take action, sitting around wishing and hoping for things to change will not bring about positive change. Positive change is a result of you taking new action in the direction of what you really want. Action is what makes you stronger, action is what breeds confidence within you, action is what makes you fearless, and action is what makes all the difference, that is what separates the successful from the unsuccessful.
The way to learn to do something is to ‘DO IT’. If you do the things that you find hard you will learn and they will become easier for you eventually. Sitting around and not taking action and just settling for a meager existence is easy, look around you, most people are caught up in auto-pilot mode, they do the same average things day after day. If you want that life then don’t take any action, don’t do the things that you find hard, don’t try anything new, don’t go after what you want, just be a coward, and you will be among-st the sheep, who are heading nowhere, but going round and round in circles, living the same year over and over again. People are blind to this fact, it comes from being in a state of sleep, and people need to be awakened and made aware that there is more to life than just living to pay your bills.
Many people overwhelm themselves by thinking of what they want to accomplish, they think that it is too far fetched. Nothing is impossible, you can learn anything that you are determined to learn to succeed. The best way is to start small by breaking up the goal that you want to achieve, break the goal into small tangible tasks that are attainable so that they accrue into the attainment of your goal.
The only way you can get better at something is to engage in it, the more you engage in what you perceive to be bad at the better you will get at it. However, please note this down, you are not born bad at something, you just have not learned how to do it. But many people make the assumption that they should be experts in the field before they take action, allow yourself to be a beginner, everyone starts at the bottom, you must work your way up to the top.
Let me conclude, you can learn anything that you want to learn, you are capable, you are able, you are special, you are blessed with gifts that you do not know about yet, you have the potential to achieve amazing things, and you can live a life of greatness. Take action in the areas that are aligned to your dreams and goals and learn what you need to learn. Don’t ever give up.
If others have done it so can you, never let others tell you otherwise. It’s your choice who you choose to become, and your daily actions determine who you become and how you will live your life. You have to push yourself to do what needs to be done to take your life to a whole new level. It is up to you if you succeed or fail.